Sunday, March 18, 2012

FEW LINES FROM ZNMD


Dilon mein tum apni betaabiyan leke chal rahe ho, toh zinda ho tum.

Nazar mein khwaabon ki bijliyan leke chal rahe ho,toh zinda ho tum.

Hawa ke jhokon ke jaise azad rehna seekho.

Tum ek dariya ke jaise lehron mein behna seekho.

Har ek lamhe se tum milo khole apni baahein.

Har ek pal ek naya samaa dekhe yeh nigaahein.

Jo apni aankhon mein hayraniyan leke chal rahe ho,toh zinda ho tum.

Dilon mein tum apni betaabiyan leke chal rahe ho, toh zinda ho tum.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Ten Tips for a Better Life


1. Don’t worry – Worry is the least productive of all human activities and thoughts.

2. Don’t let needless fears preoccupy your life. Most of the things we fear never happen.

3. Don’t hold grudges – that is one of the biggest and most unnecessary weights we carry through our lives.

4. Take on one problem at a time .It’s the only way to handle things anyway…one by one.

5. Don’t take your problems to bed with you. They are bad and unhealthy companions for good natural sleep and rest.

6. Don’t take on the problems of the other people. They are better equipped to handle their own problems than you are.

7. Don’t live in the past – It will always be there in your memories to enjoy….but don’t cling to it. Concentrate on what is happening right now in your life and you will be happy in the present also not just the past.

8. Be a good listener – It is only when one listens...that one gets and learns ideas different from ones.

9. Do not let frustration ruin and rule your life. Self pity more than anything interferes with positive actions with moving forwards in our lives.

10. Count your blessings – Don’t even forget the smallest blessings. As many small blessings add up to large ones.

Tuesday, March 06, 2012

TWO TRAITS THOSE ARE NECESSARY TO MEET LIFE BIGGEST CRISIS


1. Self Acceptance – Which allows you to live with your feelings even when they become negative. With self acceptance, you don’t fight against how you feel in the name of how you should feel. You are patient with yourself. You let the situation unfold inside and wait for the clouds of grief, anger, shock or anxiety to clear.

2. Resilience (the ability to bend with a crisis) – Idea of an individual’s tendency to cope with stress and adversity. This coping may result in the individual bouncing back to a previous state of normal functioning. Souls don’t break, they bounce back. This is the motto of people who are emotionally resilient. They accept that bad things happen even to the best people. No life is without difficulties.

The secret therefore isn’t how to lead a perfect life, for such a thing doesn’t exist. The secret is to allow you to bounce back, understand what has happened, rejoice in surviving and open yourself to the future with clarity and a touch of courage.

Monday, March 05, 2012

WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR GOOD


I always believe and say that. In life whatever happens, happens for good and it happens for a certain reason.
There are no accidents (Kung Fu Panda – I)

If you just observe your life carefully there is something or the other positive in it. You may not get the positive results or you may not see the positivity at that particular point of time. But later on, definitely you will say that it was good.

Always try to look on the positive side. I know it’s very easy to say but very difficult to follow .But at least, try it.

In your times of adversities just remember God.If god is not giving what you want may be he has some better plans for you. Have patience !!!

God never does anything wrong with people. He always gives us what we deserve. If you deserve a medal he will give you but if don’t deserve it, he will not give you. He always knows what his child wants and gives you that. If he is giving you pain he wants to make you stronger. If he is giving you trouble, difficulties, he wants to make you more powerful. But he gives you, what you deserve.

Try to be happy in whichever situation you are. Try to understand the wants of situation. May be God wants to make you so strong that you can face the adversities of life.

God may be trying to show the different world or a new world where you can grow and explore yourself. He knows, in which situation we can perform well, where we can adjust or where we can excel ourselves.
So, whatever happens, it always happens for good.

NEVER REGRET A DAY IN YOUR LIFE


One day I decided to quit...i quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality....i wanted to quit my life. i went to the woods to have one last talk with god.

"God", I said.  "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?
"His answer surprised me.

"Look around", He said. "Do you see the fern and the bamboo?"
"Yes", I replied.

"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them..  I gave them light. I gave them water.
The fern quickly grew from the earth.  Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed.  But I did not quit on the bamboo.

"In the second year the fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.  And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed.  But I did not quit on the bamboo.

"In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I would not quit. The same in year four.

"Then in the fifth year, a tiny sprout emerged from the earth.  Compared to the fern, it was seemingly small and  insignificant.

But just six months later, the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.

"Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots? I would not quit on the bamboo.. I will never quit on you”.

"Don't compare yourself to others." He said. "The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest beautiful”.

"Your time will come", God said to me..  "You will rise high"
"How high should I rise?" I asked.

"How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return.
"As high as it can?" I questioned
"Yes."

He said, “Give me glory by rising as high as you can."

I left the forest, realizing that God will never give up on me. And He will never give up on you.

Lessons to Learn from This Story:

Never regret a day in your life. Good days give you happiness. Bad days give you experiences, both are essential to life.